The loops are self-evident and here’s added color from experience with those too insecure to take accountability for their shortcomings, faults and mistakes.
The Accountability Loop | Courageous, mature, secure, brave, assertive, humble and wise.
The Victim Loop | Cowardly, immature, insecure, fearful, passive-aggressive, prideful and foolish.
“When you blame others, you give up your power to change and grow.”